Posted by Shortelise on August 9, 2005, at 14:38:47
In reply to Reinstating Innocence, posted by orchid on August 9, 2005, at 13:53:32
Orchid, I agree with all you say except one thing: I do not believe in unconditional love. I think it is too much to ask of anyone, except of parents for a young child.
I think the expectation of unconditional love is unrealistic.
There are conditions between my husband and me. I cannot do certain things, he cannot do certain things, or it will damage our love. We must respect and know each other, must respect each others' needs and boudaries. Iw ould help him through anything, but if it damaged our relationship too much, broke our love, I would eventually leave him. I can't imagine this ever happening though.
What do you think?
ShortE
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