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Re: Help me figure this out! » crazy teresa

Posted by Shortelise on July 16, 2005, at 16:03:35

In reply to Help me figure this out!, posted by crazy teresa on July 16, 2005, at 12:16:15

For me, this cleaning mess is a sign of depression. Not that things are a mess, but that I can't do anything about it.

As you and your husband are both working, could you afford to have someone come in and help you clean? There are agencies that will send a couple of people for a few hours, it costs of course, but it works. They may not be able to put your stuff away for you, but they will clean everything including the toilets and the kitchen!

You could do that for you and your relationship. It helps me. My husband and I used to fight about the mess all the time, so to save grief, we hired a cleaning lady who comes in every two weeks. This keeps me from feeling overwhelmed by the mess, and allows us a little more free time. I can't tell you what a big difference it hs made for us.

Getting an agency to send a crew for a one time thing is also super. Really.

Take care and do what you need to do to feel better. It might be easier to deal with it than to suffer.

ShortE


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