Posted by happyflower on July 5, 2005, at 8:33:54
In reply to Re: What makes people like their Ts and not others » Dinah, posted by pinkeye on July 4, 2005, at 18:27:50
I think T's don't get emotionally involved with our problems, they make seem like they do with support and all that, but they do keep themselves out of our problems. They always have us as the focus, we don't even ask about their life and their problems. If it was a personal relationship it would be kinda of selfish of us to depend on someone to always be there for us, but yet they don't count on us to be their for them.
T's have personal problems too, but they ARE emotionally involved in them. They get hurt, mad, act like jerks, pout, and all the stuff we do in our personal relationship. T's can't stay objective as easy when they are in the problem. I am sure if they try to use their "therapy " on their wives, the wives problably say stuff your therapy crap, I am mad, you have been a jerk, but I am not your crazy patient, so shut up with all the therapy stuff. lol I bet T's have a harder time with their personal realationships.
I know a lot of people who have the same neat qualities as my T. But these personal relationships I know some of their faults too and past histories. But I think with our relationship with our T's we mostly see their good side only.
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