Posted by pegasus on June 15, 2005, at 14:59:15
In reply to Stress and T stuff, posted by thewrite1 on June 15, 2005, at 12:00:30
Well, yes, it's understandable that she might need her resources for her own crisis. But I also think that she really might have acknowledged that her missing your phone session was hard for you, even if she did have a good reason. I mean, you were fantasizing about her being *dead* or hurt or something. And you are supposed to go to her for support for your own crises after all. It's not as though you were imposing on her by having a session scheduled.
But, then, we all sometimes fail to behave ideally when things are going badly around us.
Hang in there. I'm sure you two will work things out. And I'm really sorry about your MIL. That was a rotten thing she said to you, and I hope she really regrets it . . . at least eventually.
pegasus
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