Posted by happyflower on May 24, 2005, at 16:11:52
In reply to Re: my fairytale is over! » happyflower, posted by Annierose on May 24, 2005, at 15:23:15
> just a few thoughts ... your therapist is a real person, and this is a real relationship. it is just a relationship with defined boundaries and some sort of "rules" (so to speak). so don't discount your feelings with or about your therapist.
>I do feel my feeling are real.I respect him very much. In fact I feel there was some mutual feelings of attraction in the beginning. He has mentioned his wife and daughter before, but he didn't wear a ring, so I though maybe they are separated or something. But today, he mentioned something that told told me that they do live together. It was just a fantasy, so I don't feel I need to tell him about my past erotic feelings because they have been disappering over the last couple of months. I did tell him today that I like him and trust him and thats why I am scared, so thats why I push him away ( see my other thread above). I actually feel better that the fantasy is over. I am not really hurting or sad about it. I feel I have more appropiate feelings for him. I feel like I can move into the tuff stuff we need to do without being in la la land of being married to him someday and being his soul mate. lol Reality is good sometimes! I feel better.
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