Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 15:28:22
In reply to Re: I think I have some serious issues **trigger** » pinkeye, posted by rainbowbrite on May 12, 2005, at 15:13:53
Thank you.
We have tried couples thearpy about 3 years back for the same issue wiht my exT. I agreed to go back to India with him, but then my hsuband changed his mind, and wanted to be here as well. So it became a non issue for us. But my hsuband got into several problems himself, and I was struggling with that. Now my husband wouldn't come to couple therapy (I have asekd, and he makes fun of therapists. He doesn't like them anymore).
I get very hurt in my relationship with men. My father, my husband. For that matter even my exT. I got so hurt, and I know for 100% sure, he is a good person, and he didn't have any intention of hurting me. Even if my father and my husband had not been that great, I know my ex T was very good. But I got hurt myself with him also.
You know what I actually feel, I am not fit to have a good relationship with any man. That is what I really believe. Either they abuse me or treat me like a doormat, or if they are good, then they don't like me. IT is hugely messed up.
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