Posted by fallsfall on April 28, 2005, at 6:53:42
In reply to Rescue Fantasy, posted by daisym on April 28, 2005, at 1:27:30
You sound a little more peaceful. I'm glad.
>I went on to say that for me it would have been easier if I had sexualized my feelings for him, instead of developing such a maternal attachment. Because these feelings are so strong and complicated,
And sexual feelings would be easier because you understand those, and you understand what to do when you have those. You don't understand maternal feelings (though, you seem to be a great mom yourself). So it might have been easier, but I doubt that it would have been as productive...
I'm glad he didn't squash your fantasy.
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