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Re: devil's advocate, Suze...

Posted by sunny10 on April 20, 2005, at 11:50:29

In reply to Re: Very Often Poet, posted by Susan47 on April 19, 2005, at 21:31:22

you mentioned changing outfits three times 'cause you didn't feel right with the other two outfits...

Is it at all possible that T was purposefully trying to pull your thoughts away from your appearance? That he knows that how we dress is often a reflection of how we feel inside? Some of us dress up, put on makeup, et cetera when we feel we need an armour... maybe he thought you were doing that and he wanted to talk about why you feel the need to look good for him instead of "what pretty shoes you're wearing"?

And, if I may be frank with you again regarding him- I'm still convinced that he was attracted to you in a way that was not appropriate for a T-client relationship and went out of his way to NEVER mention anything about how you looked...

just my opinion...


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