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Re: Feeling vulnerable littleone

Posted by alexandra_k on April 19, 2005, at 22:15:41

In reply to Re: Feeling vulnerable alexandra_k, posted by littleone on April 19, 2005, at 22:03:55

> My T wrote this for me in my last session ('cause I faze out and forget most of the session):

> "When I feel like doing a runner, this is an expected feeling of wanting to avoid feelings and issues I'm not comfortable with. But I don't have to give into these feelings. I can face up to them. Not run. And find out the beliefs that drive them are wrong."

> I love it when he writes stuff out for me :)

Yes. That is terrific. I like written stuff too. I have difficulty remembering stuff from sessions too. Hard stuff has a hard time sinking in. But that is good stuff. Do ya reckon??

> > I felt a bit like 'what the hell is wrong with me - nothing even happened to me - loads of people had it much worse than me' and I shared that with one t.
> > She said 'but you had nobody to talk to'.
> > And I just cried.

> I'm not sure what your childhood was like alex, but even if you were never beaten, molested, etc, emotional neglect/abuse is still very damaging. In fact it is the emotional abuse aspect of all the other types of abuse that is the most damaging.

Does that apply to you too??

> > But I reckon the urge to run means that it is really important that you don't.
> > Sigh.
> > Why is life like that so often?????

> A friend of mine once said that it is the paradox's in life that make it so interesting.

Yeah.
Paradox
Suprise
The unexpected.
I am an active information processor
etc etc.
Yeah.
There is a lot of truth in that.

So you aren't going to run away, eh?

(((littleone)))
Take care of yourself when you are feeling vulnerable.
But it is a good sign.
Don't know if this will make much sense but it is when you feel vulnerable that the boulders can move on the inside.

 

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