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Re: I told him and I'm sorry. Triggery I guess -sexual

Posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 18, 2005, at 12:52:35

In reply to I told him and I'm sorry. Triggery I guess -sexual, posted by Dinah on April 16, 2005, at 18:13:13


This sounds so CLEARLY about him. Like he is interpreting a lot into your statement and even adding onto it. I would be very interested in knowing what exactly he thinks you plan on doing. Does he think you have a plan to seduce him now? Does he think you seduced your father??? Perhaps you should start rubbing his neck at the end of sessions and see how he reacts!

Why would he sexualize this? It sounds as if he immediately sexualized it, as if it were a forgone conclusion. It sounds as if he has always believed your relationship with your father was somehow sexual. This came out of right field, right?

The phone tagging sounds wierd too, from what I know about your therapist. I think our Ts are similar in a lot of ways (although mine drives a Dodge!) and that includes boundaries. Your T doesn't seem the type to call back, right? That is not his usual MO, right? So that seems very out of the ordinary.

Wish I could offer you some words of wisdom though. But it really seems like this reaction is all about him and his issues and nothing to do with you.




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