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Re: We had a fight

Posted by All Done on April 8, 2005, at 15:04:11

In reply to Re: We had a fight All Done, posted by alexandra_k on April 7, 2005, at 3:35:29

> Hmm.
> How horrible / hard would it be for you to see someone else?
> IMO you make very good points.
> You should not be paying him $90 per hour to 'fight' about this.
> You shouldn't even be paying him the ammount he is SUPPOSED to be charging you to 'fight' about this.
>
> Deja vu. Really.
> I think it might be time to move on if that isn't too horrible for you.
>
> Feel free to ignore me if you like.
> But in my head - alarm bells are ringing...

How hard would it be to leave? Well, it depends on what you mean by hard. I have quite a few Ts I could see that are providers under my insurance policy. And most of those would even be closer to my house, but...it would *feel* almost impossible to leave him.

Money matters aside, I'm approaching 2 years with him. Most of the time I feel pretty comfortable with him and I suspect that the times I'm not feeling comfortable stem from some of my old stuff that I need to be working on even harder.

All that said, my first reaction to your question was that it would be really, really horrible.

I'm not ignoring you, though. I realize it is something I might have to consider if I/we can't get past this. I think I just have to give us a little more time to work it out.

Oh, and since he considers much of this a "therapeutic opportunity" and, in part, I don't disagree with him, it would be very hard for me to argue that we shouldn't be talking about this on my dollar.

Thanks, alexandra. I really appreciate your input and I hope you are doing well.

Laurie


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