Posted by 10derHeart on March 3, 2005, at 20:00:31
In reply to Re: ((((((((((((((((((((((((Susan))))))))))))))))))))), posted by Susan47 on March 3, 2005, at 19:04:56
>> I wish I were never born.
Susan, dear heart, please don't do this.
I know this is harsh, but there are times for NOT validating some feelings, and it's only because I've SEEN (some of)your inner strength that I'm about to take this risk.....but STOP IT! Please!
You DO NOT wish you were never born!! And if you do, well, shoot, dang..what about those gorgeous children??!! I don't mean to go right for the guilt trip....but whatever it takes. Why I'm all fired up is - I KNOW you don't actually believe something like it's be better to not be born because of ANYTHING your ex-T. did, said, or how he looks! Please understand the spirit here. I've never posted like this before, but woman, someone is hurting my new, wonderful friend and I can't just watch that happen.
<deep breath> okay, okay. Get it out over on Writing. Curse back at me...but then you MUST forgive me afterwards because I couldn't bear it.... Send me a Babble mail and tell me to go to h*ll, please, I won't report it or anything, but I want you to do anything except sit and write words like "I wish I were never born." To me, that's more "offensive" than anything I've read in a long time. PLEASE understand my meaning. If you are feeling too low to defend your existence, lean on me, I'll do it for a while! But you can't wish to erase yourself.
NO, no. I wouldn't want you to allow me to post that unanswered, and I just can't allow you to do so. ALL posters here who talk with you (and no doubt those who just read) are very glad you were born....so does that make US wrong? No. You touch so many here all the time - it's wonderful to watch. Ex-T cannot take away your value on this Earth. He cannot.
(Being a praying person, I am now going to literally get on my knees and pray I did not just screw up and hurt you...)
Susan, please. Take that back. We love you.
poster:10derHeart
thread:465969
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