Posted by Aphrodite on March 3, 2005, at 19:27:06
In reply to Re: Having it in writing » Aphrodite, posted by Dinah on March 3, 2005, at 18:38:17
I so agree that actions are important. Anyone can talk the talk.
My coworker once pointed out to me that I will take the blame and believe any negative thing thrown at me in work, but I refuse to believe anything good or take any credit for all of my hard work. He asked me why I take the word of people I don't respect when they criticize but I won't believe the people I do respect when they compliment me. It was very eye opening.
It's easy to believe the bad because it fits into my worldview. If the same person is also saying something good, I discredit them. I guess if you're going to trust someone, it has to go both ways.
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