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Re: Yes.

Posted by pinkeye on February 25, 2005, at 14:39:09

In reply to Re: Yes., posted by Susan47 on February 25, 2005, at 14:16:08

You are not a bad person. In fact, nowadays I believe 99 % of us are not bad. We just go through so much in life, and we end up maladapting to life events. And we pick up bad habits, even destructive habits to help us cope up with somethings which doesn't make sense in our lives - sometimes it ends up being that we end up being nasty to ourselves and to others, we become jealous, angry - we hurt people we love the most - we don't mean to, but we do anyway.

Some of us end up further destructing ourselves, health and our career, family, love etc and it sometimes feels like we really want to become bad and destroy ourselves and others, but in fact we don't want that. It is only maladaptation and it is perfectly curable with adequate support and role models and inspiration.

What you think you might have done to your therapist is only a maladapation on your part - even if you want to believe you are bad, you are not. Remember that. If you were bad, you wouldn't be so honest with yourself and putting all this effort. You wouldn't even have acknowledged that you hurt him. And in all likelihood, he knows that as well, and is probably not going to hold taht against you.


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