Posted by gardenergirl on February 19, 2005, at 9:59:15
In reply to Re: Freud anyone?, posted by daisym on February 16, 2005, at 23:10:53
Daisy,
I don't get flash anger. I think I tend to steam for awhile, and if I talk to others about it, it often makes it continue rather than burn out. It's still a hard topic for me, but I am thinking about the "good girl" issue, and maybe it just doesn't feel proper for me to be assertive and express anger directly. And of course there's the wanting people not to be upset with me. Because if they are, I tend to take that too personally versus look at their issues or perhaps look at just my behavior that may have caused it versus my "being".Still confused, though. Ugghers.
Thanks for your thoughts.
gg
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