Posted by sunny10 on February 18, 2005, at 13:45:45
In reply to Re: VWoolf, posted by vwoolf on February 18, 2005, at 13:02:36
okay, Ican see that.... I myself have simply bailed on relationships and wound up right where I started with same guy, different name...
Just be careful. I, too, have "bentover backwards", (and in other directions as well) and for me those things that I can't mention to anyone are those things which have made me feel ashamed of myself.... The fact was that I'd do anything for someone to love me- even though I wasn't even liking myself at the time...
Very scary for me to realize that I had "helped" bad things to happen to me by allowing things that I wouldn't now...
It's possible that you do these things, too. And it is possible that T can help you with them.
BUT I still think that you should ask T about how you can protect yourself WHILE you are learning how not to repeat the past and grow...
I'm thinking of you...
sunny10
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