Posted by mair on February 11, 2005, at 7:25:01
In reply to Parts and Pieces, posted by daisym on February 11, 2005, at 1:26:56
Daisy - it doesn't sound to me like you sank quickly and easily at all. It sounds like you tried to fight it off.
It seems natural to me that you would be particularly conflicted about this right now. You're in a period where the adult you has been preeminent and seemingly totally in control. When you're somewhat less stressed, maybe it's easier to accept the little girl as part and parcel of you. When it's a struggle to get out of control mode, maybe you're more inclined to look at little daisy as an intruder.
I understand that he feels the time is right and that you and he have no choice but to address the unconscious now, but what a task to be undertaking with everything else on your plate.