Posted by Dinah on November 28, 2004, at 12:27:14
In reply to want to know/don't want to know, posted by thewrite1 on November 28, 2004, at 12:22:20
I'm learning that that's something we all want that's probably better for us not to have. My therapist has been more open lately, and while I suppose it lessens the intense attachment, it also means he's less effective at doing what I need for him to do. And I too worry about him.
I think there were reasons for those rules that we all find so irksome.