Posted by Fallen4MyT on November 27, 2004, at 20:43:40
In reply to Is my T dumping me?, posted by left_hangin on November 26, 2004, at 21:39:03
I am sorry I can be kinda duh but are you currently seeing her for that once a week? If so I would ask her to look at her appointment book in 2005 and set you up ahead for the two a week she suggested and see what she says..If you aren't seeing her at all I would say find someone else a T that busy is too busy but if seeing you once a week she may be as booked as she wants to be for her own sake like to avoid burn out and maybe enjoy her family. Let us know ok?
> Hello all,
> I have been seeing someone for about 5 years now. I have never been to a therapist before and would appreciate your opinion on this.
> About 6 months ago I was flip flopping on if I should continue to see her or anyone. Well I was only coming once a week and due to work only evening appointments. I guess I have a need for attention and/or a fear of being abandoned. I don't know really she never would come out and tell me what is wrong.
> So I was flip flopping back and forth and cancealed an appointment. I had told her that once a week wasn't doing any good for me.
> She said I needed to see her twice a week but she did not have any openings at that time and she would call. That has been a long 6 months ago.
> Since then I have struggled greatly with all of the issues of my past with out anyone to bounce stuff off of.
> I have called her in times of need and she has said she has no openings. I have also asked for a day appointmnet risking my job but this is an obsession - I think - and I am sure some know how that can be. Also wanting to call her bluff so to speak. She did not have any openings in the day.
> Is she just blowing me off and I am to stupid to see it?
> Is she not able to tell me she doesn't want me back?
> She has suggested back 6 months ago that I should see someone else.
> I have found her home and have driven by a couple of times. I am going between panic and pills to much.
> This is to close to getting out of control for me and don't know what to do.
> Can anyone help?
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