Posted by mair on October 22, 2004, at 14:03:37
In reply to 10 things we love about our Ts, posted by Miss Honeychurch on October 22, 2004, at 12:22:35
I don't think I can come up with 10, but here are some, in no particular order.
1. She usually has fresh flowers on the coffee table which separates the chair I sit in and the one she sits in.
2. She had to dig up some phlox from her garden this summer and she brought me a bunch to replant in mine, since I've admired the phlox outside her office on several occasions.
3. She has boundaries but she's not up tight about self-disclosing. She'll answer questions I ask her (I try not to get too personal) and she's self disclosed on lots of occasions where she thinks it would help me identify with her.
4. She's very conscientious and in my opinion, competent and careful about what she does.
5. She's very upbeat and naturally optamistic and seems never to get frustrated with the difficulties of dealing with someone as slow to progress as I am.
6. She doesn't get at all defensive about her own mistakes, or about any criticism I might have (I've never complained alot). She's very open to talking about our relationship and actually insists upon it.
7. She's organized and reliable.
8. She's friendly
I've run out of time; I'll think of some more later.
Mair
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