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Re: Dumb question » Rigby

Posted by crushedout on August 31, 2004, at 21:18:34

In reply to Re: Dumb question, posted by Rigby on August 23, 2004, at 12:10:28

Rigby,

I hope it's ok if I jump in at this late hour. I've found this whole thread rather compelling and disturbing (so disturbing, I must add, that I haven't been able to read much of it at a time, and still haven't finished it, so forgive me if I say stuff that's already stale). I'm not exactly sure why I find it so disturbing, but that's not the point.

I have trouble thinking it's a coincidence, this parallel. And it's odd (to me) that I'm experiencing such a similar parallel in my own life. Of course, I don't know if my T was ever a lesbian (I would guess not) but I know *I* was, and now I'm involved in a pretty serious relationship with a guy for the first time in 13 years. I don't think it's a coincidence for me that this is happening and that my T is straight. I dunno. It's all very mystifying and disconcerting to me to tell you the truth.

The whole thing makes me queasy. I don't know what to make of it.

> When you say more focused, what does that mean to you? Does it seem weird that my life would parallel her's like this?
> > Okay, in light of what you said about your therapist being lesbian for a while, then marrying a guy, that changes everything. Now everything you've said about her therapeutic relationship with you and your feelings around that seems more focussed.
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