Posted by crazymaisie on August 11, 2004, at 22:09:39
In reply to Re: Urgent Dilemma, Need TOVacation Club Support » daisym, posted by mair on August 11, 2004, at 22:00:13
hey
my T calls me quite often (obviously i ask her to) and sometimes i feel much much better after talking to her, but sometimes worse. i get conscious that she doesn't have much time so i don't always work things through with her if something does come up and can hang up feeling worse. what works, though, is if i know what it is i need her to say (reassurance about some point in the previous session for example) and in your case, you do seem to know what you would want to hear. i would try to discuss it with him pretty clearly in advance, though. if you're anything like me, the wrong word could spark a frenzy. i don't think you should feel bad if you ask him to call, though. if he's offering then i'm sure he means it and wouldn't mind at all.
that's just my experience. good luck with the break in any case
CM
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