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B2chica.....

Posted by Susan47 on July 30, 2004, at 18:07:41

In reply to Re: if the bridge leads... » AuntieMel, posted by B2chica on July 30, 2004, at 16:16:33

What you say here, ....-
"and herein lies the problem. we have been married for almost 7 years now. i trusted him completely up until the year after we were married. When i found out about who his true other partner was...(his mother). he tells her everything. Yes i love her dearly she is a wonderful woman. But anything i've ever told him goes straight to her. Believe me, i ache to trust him again and i "test the waters" every year, and each time i find out it's gone. he tells, he always tells.
and yes i feel HORRIBLE, i feel like a sneaky manipulative person for "testing" the way i do but i have to. and each time i'm proven right. There will never be anything that i tell him that she won't know."

I've been here too. It feels like a huge betrayal (and I think it is: it showed me my husband was a *weak, weak man*.)

Thanks for listening and sharing.


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