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Re: resuming after termination? please help (long) steelmagnolia25

Posted by gardenergirl on July 5, 2004, at 17:25:45

In reply to Re: resuming after termination? please help (long), posted by steelmagnolia25 on July 5, 2004, at 11:17:21

Wow, that sounds like a complex situation. In some ways, I think you may be right, that his response to the transference was more about him than you. Whether he was struggling with real feelings or who knows what other issues, for some reason, he feels he cannot treat you appropriately. In some ways, although it hurts, it's better for that to happen earlier rather than later.

About the parking ticket thing...It DOES sound like he would rather you not come in. I don't know why that is. Again, I would suspect it is something to do with his own issues rather than yours. I'm sorry that is affecting you, though. It seems like a perfectly reasonable request given the deadline, for you to pick it up in person.

Good luck with finding a new T. That process can be stressful as well. There have been posts in the past about interviewing T's if you have questions or want some additional info. I don't have a link, but if you search the archives, you may be able to find it.

I hope that when you do get a new T, that she (or he, but I think she is good choice) will be able to help you with your feelings about all of this.

Take care and please let us know how you are doing.

gg

 

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