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Re: Body issues at Work...advice please

Posted by B2chica on July 1, 2004, at 12:32:02

In reply to Re: Body issues at Work...advice please, posted by Racer on July 1, 2004, at 11:58:08

>>Wow, what timing! I'm not working, so I only get it with family members right now.

thanks for the response Racer. i just feel so hurt and vulnerable right now and this usually makes me come out with both guns firing.
I think no matter who it's from it SU*#s! But at least these people i can walk away from or avoid extended contact, you however, having family on your butt sucks. i did have my husband doing that a while ago but i kept trying to tell him it was the anxiety (that's always a good one) he just didn't understand, but after my little time in the hospital he doesn't push as much.
Luckily i don't have to deal with these people everyday, and they probably WOULD kick the white cane! the truth is i don't respect these people professionally and some personally either. in fact several are incompetent 10 fold so that's why i don't normally even give a hoot.
but the timing couldn't be worse. i just want to shout LEAVE MY BODY ALONE..IT"S MINE!!!!!!!! GET OUT OF IT!!!!!!

>>I finally said to my aunt.and that she and I could discuss it when she received her license to treat eating disorders. (Although, not *quite* in those words...)

GOOD FOR YOU!! actually this is good advice for me if my hubby does strt back up again. my parents and his were very subtle they just kept inviting us over to eat or send food home...(ooops it fell in the toilet!) but my plates clean!

Unfortunately there's only two people i trust at my work and their both guys...and they said well their just jealous cuz they have fat heads..(hehe)
other then them i don't want ANYONE there to know even a whisper of what's going on with me, so i think i've decided i won't even dignify this with any response. that'll just egg them on.
HOWEVER...i REALLY like this last one. you made me feel good.

>>Last option is to start a rumor of your own. Best way is to be really secretive -- look sadly as someone across the room and shake your head a little, as if you know something about her that makes you sad... You wouldn't even have to say a word, either, since most gossip cliques like to speculate. Anyone who sees you do it -- be subtle, so no one asks you directly -- will start up, and that should shift the gossip away from you...

>>Best luck -- and I'm sorry this is going on for you. (And you might try something like Mylanta for the tummy. Or those orange sherbet/vanilla ice cream bars. < they won't help, but they taste good and you can pretend it's medicinal.) GRrrr! That's for the people who won't leave us alone!

Unfortunately mylanta..etc. nothing helps this-not until my T session tomorrow at least...but i might have to give those orange ic bars a try anyway :)

Racer, i'm sorry you are going through this too. I don't know your situation but please becareful. i know that i actually do have a problem but it is situational and i am getting help. i hope the same for you.

Thanks RACER for the GRRRRR...me too!
b2c.


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