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Re: DBT making me miserable gardenergirl

Posted by crushedout on May 29, 2004, at 8:29:40

In reply to Re: DBT making me miserable, posted by gardenergirl on May 29, 2004, at 1:33:00


Yes, I do think things have settled down enormously as far as our relationship goes. I worry that I've put them on the back burner (my feelings for her) and that I should be sure to address them because they're going to flare up again. They're still there but somehow they feel less urgent, and the way that I'm dealing with them (i.e., without significantly harming myself or blaming her) makes her happier about being my T. So in general our relationship has improved a great deal. Which is great.

And yes, she thinks I can handle the fires. In fact, she thinks that because we were so focused on talking about our relationship and the problems between us for so long, I've been handling all the other fires by myself for a long time.

Boy, you have an amazing knack for putting a positive spin on things! And making me feel validated at the same time.




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