Posted by pegasus on May 23, 2004, at 14:38:01
In reply to A new theory of mine, posted by Dinah on May 21, 2004, at 11:52:19
Dinah, I've been thinking about this post a lot lately. It's good to think about the positive side of loss and pain. I think it's true that we're better off if we can be ok with not getting what we want. And ok with wanting what we can't have. That's been a huge struggle for me lately. I fight so hard against having these phenomena in my life. But, it comes up all the time in life, doesn't it? So, I'm using your words to help me put my wanting into a better, more healthy and accepting perspective.
Thanks much for sharing your thoughts on this.