Posted by rs on April 29, 2004, at 19:19:13
In reply to Intense pain from upcoming termination, posted by LG04 on April 29, 2004, at 8:46:46
So sorry that you are going through this. Will share from expereince. Was seeing the same T for about 6yrs once a week for some difficult stuff. Anyway he one day told me he would be moving to another state miles miles away. Had a month notice. Cried that day and many many after. The last session was awful. No nothing. Could not have any contact with him etc. Would never ever see or trust another T. The pain got easier. But still missed him much. Did not see another T for about 3yrs. Well at first hated him. But you know today he is the best. So so much better in many ways then the other T. Also did call old T a few weeks ago and he called back. Cried the whole time and told him how wrong he was to have no contact etc. He agreed and said could call him anytime. New T knew called. Anyway honestly right now it seems to you like it will never go away but it does. Honestly. Will not lie to you and say you have easy days coming. They will not be but some day will. Yes today still miss old T in someway but you know if he was to come back would not choose him over this one. Please know I understand your pain right now. What makes it worse sometimes is that my last session was on my birthday. Good luck.
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