Posted by gardenergirl on April 5, 2004, at 21:26:16
In reply to Re: feeling abandoned worried LONG » Joslynn, posted by Fallen4myT on April 5, 2004, at 20:52:41
I think all of those worries make sense when you haven't heard back from someone with whom you have an existing relationship. The most important thing to remember is that it is NOT your fault. It definitely sounds like it is on his end.
If you haven't tried this already, how about if you call and leave a message saying since you have not heard back you plan on coming in at such and such a time and date. That places the responsibility on him to call you to say not to come in if he is booked. If no call, then show up as planned. It's risky in that you may have to go in and find that he is with someone else, but you may finally get a response.
Or you can leave him a choice of three dates/times that work for you and ask him to call you back by 5:00 the next day to choose one or to give you an alternative.
Good luck. How frustrating this must be!
gg
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