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Re: Ever wonder why your T is evasive? EmmyS

Posted by pegasus on March 21, 2004, at 17:53:03

In reply to Ever wonder why your T is evasive?, posted by EmmyS on March 21, 2004, at 10:54:49

Yeah, I have to agree with others that maybe it's the evasiveness that promotes the stalking, to some extent. I'm using my terminology loosely here. But I do think that it's the fact that I could find out so little about him that encouraged me to dig for more info. I think it's a power imbalance thing. He knows all this stuff about me, and I know next to nothing about him. That is really uncomfortable. When he told me more about himself, our therapy went more smoothly, and I was less tempted to search for info about him.

But it's probably somewhat of a chicken and egg argument. I can see your point about how after having been stalked, one might keep their personal information close to the chest.

-p

 

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