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Re: please help me judy1

Posted by Racer on March 17, 2004, at 11:27:24

In reply to please help me, posted by judy1 on March 17, 2004, at 2:28:25

Darling! You know that that isn't why he terminated you. You *know* -- even if you can't access that knowledge right now -- that your worth is not limited to what you can do for others. You know that you are treasured and precious to a lot of people who have never met you face to face -- like me, and we all know how fabulous I am. You know that there's no balance sheet for human worth, or human suffering.

I'm sorry your husband is away right now, and that you're hitting such a rough patch without him. Is there anything I can do for you? Can I offer sensible words? (<<<Doubt I can right now, but I can entertain you with nonsense that tries to make sense.) Can I just tell you that you matter to me? Can I listen and make comforting sounds?

Judy1, my old and valued buddy, you matter, and you deserve to feel better. This is not your failure, this is a situational failure. You, the person, deserve better. And I care. It may not help much, but for what you can take from it -- there's a big part of my heart reaching out to you, wanting to hold you and comfort you and share whatever strength it has with you. If writing me would help, please do. babbler39 at excite dot com.

You are worthy, no one hates you, and I send you the love you deserve.


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