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Re: a little background and follow-up » EmmyS

Posted by crushedout on December 30, 2003, at 20:46:14

In reply to Re: a little background and follow-up, posted by EmmyS on December 30, 2003, at 19:42:40

The problem is: I *do* feel safe. *I'm* not really worried about boundaries at all. Maybe I ought to be, but I'm not. I *want* her to cross boundaries. She's the one who's supposed to be worrying about boundaries. Which is what makes the CD so confusing for me.

But I take your point all the same, and I really appreciate everyone's support. This is much harder than I could have imagined. Just as, I bet, her crossing other, even more important boundaries (i.e., physical), would be much harder than I can now imagine. (Although I feel like the CD is upsetting for me because it's just a taste of what I want so badly: total intimacy with her. So maybe if she really wanted to go "all the way" with me, it wouldn't be so bad. As long as she didn't ever dump me, which of course is no guarantee. But love is always hard, right? Getting dumped always sucks. I dunno. I know I'm talkin' crazy right now.)


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