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Re: questions for people with DID/Borderline PD » bookgurl99

Posted by judy1 on July 27, 2003, at 14:00:11

In reply to questions for people with DID/Borderline PD, posted by bookgurl99 on July 27, 2003, at 8:41:34

having had that borderline label in my early 20's (I really did outgrow it), I have to agree with noa that stress really pushes you into that black and white thinking. I hope you're able to understand what's happening to her- which I know is really difficult because even therps have difficulty with it. Realize it's not personal, that that type of behavior is reserved for one's closest family and friends (which I assume you are)- it's kind of a push-pull coping skill. I love you but you can't possibly love/care about me because I don't love/care about myself. Did that make sense? Once she has moved and settled try to get close again and you may be pleasently surprised. best of luck, judy


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