Posted by Eggy on July 16, 2003, at 0:39:49
In reply to Re: Love with therapist, posted by becca on June 29, 2003, at 11:35:12
Transference...I do this way to often. I try not to but, I do.My poor therapist. He always says in a quiet reserved voice "remember I am not your father". I think he has to remind me as he is afraid I may kill him or something. But sometimes I feel as if I do love him. Maybe I do? Not sexually. But fatherly, yes. He is what I would want my dad to be like. I would like him to be my father. I kills me to think that someday I will not need him and then our relationship will be over. But hopefully when I no longer need his help I will no longer have or feel the need for him to be the father I never had.
poster:Eggy
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