Posted by LA on January 30, 2003, at 14:38:10
In reply to Re: Marriage Counselors to Iso » LA, posted by judy1 on January 30, 2003, at 11:42:33
> If he refuses to go, all you can do is go by yourself and discuss all this with your therapist. He/she may have some ideas that will encourage him to go, but even then if he won't you'll gain support and understanding from your therapist. I wish you all the best- judy
Judy
Thank you for answering my post. I think you are right and I should go see the therapist on my own. I don't believe anything will change his mind at this point. For such a smart guy my husband still has a cave man ( that's my name for not being able to grasp anything you can't see ) mentality. I am also concerned about how he will react about my going alone. But I guess I can't really worry about that, because if I do I won't be helping either of us.
LA
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