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Re: How can you be so sure?

Posted by Phil on December 15, 2002, at 22:02:25

In reply to Re: How can you be so sure?, posted by Miller on December 15, 2002, at 18:45:44

"Phil, I am glad that you were able to see your mom as a strong person who you admired. Maybe prior to you viewing her that way, you blamed her for your bad feelings."
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You probably don't want to hear my history there.

You are the only responsible party in your situation. You tried to die, you honestly told you doctor. He did what he was probably trained or required by law to do. (Is that true, I don't know)

Now, YOU are mad at HIM because you think you were treated unfairly by him. What was your doctors intention when he had to make that decision. I think he said to himself, "She's going to be mad as hell but I've got to do what's right. Even if he does it in a way that was crass, at least he had the right intention. Maybe that was his third suicide call that week.
Maybe he really wanted to piss you off so you would stay alive long enough to chew him out. Then, when you vented on him with all you had, you might be so mad you're crying. That's when you can resume the work of staying alive, which is really the ONLY important issue here.
a. you tried suicide
b. he's a fucking idiot
Watch how you handle this situation and you could get some clues on why you're suicidal in the first place. In this universe, there are 'no' mistakes.
I know that:
a. You are very,very hard on yourself. You are not going through hell because of what you've done-it doesn't quite work that smoothly. You're suffering because 'you believe' you were bad and deserve payback. When you were bad as a little girl, what was the punishment, if any?

b. You want perfection from others. If you're busy fixing them, you don't have to work on yourself.

c. You try to shift responsibility and talk about how you just got horrible treatment from your doctor. That is not the issue that needs fixing fast.

d. Suicide is often about control. Okay everybody, I've chosen to die at ----p.m.
I'd like to request of my friends, family, lovers to be happy and go on with your life. Don't worry about me-I was just taking up space. Please do this for me.

e. Many reading this including me, do the EXACT same behaviors.

You get what you give.


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