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Merlin and Rock » katia

Posted by BarbaraCat on July 29, 2004, at 11:36:29

In reply to Re: Merlin's fantastic passing » BarbaraCat, posted by katia on July 29, 2004, at 0:51:59

Dear Katia,
Some day when you can handle it, I'd love to hear more of Rock's story. It's how we honor them, telling their stories to those who care. All day I've been alternately weeping for want of holding Merlin again, and feeling so relieved that his pain in this life is finally over, he's become light. Seeing him suffer was the worst, even worse than missing him now, although I'd rather neither had to happen. His little heart just didn't want to stop beating, he wanted to stay so bad. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth the agony to open up and love so much, but the lonely alternative is much worse. Even so, how wrenching, what an empty hole it leaves.

I keep hearing his little voice, not so much a kitty voice, but a young little voice saying 'Thank you for loving me. Love is everything, why we come here. Love makes us real, a thread that continues forever.' I have to believe him. The shared love helps our and their soul's evolution.

This grief board is a special place. If you tell your pup's story here, it will be cherished and maybe help to heal the pain of the outrage against the evil stupid horrible people. They will get theirs, and the satisfaction is that they will do it to their own sh*thead selves.

Rock was and is indeed a special soul. Like I said, I grew to love him since meeting him through you, and I never even saw the little guy. I mean this. His energy and love were huge. He chose you and Thank God you were there for him to help him complete his journey. Like Fayaroe says, I only hope that when my time comes I'll have a passing like Merlin and Rock and the others who have gone in their loved ones' arms. You now have a great friend and protector in the Unseen Realms, as I have in my little Sweetheart Merlin. I have to believe we'll all meet again and that it will be at least as satisfying as it was here. More than this I can't begin to understand. Love, B


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