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Re: Sorry to butt in

Posted by nukeme1(Mike) on January 26, 2004, at 18:26:41

In reply to Sorry to butt in » nukeme1(Mike), posted by Susan J on January 26, 2004, at 12:12:35

ok, maybe you are right, maybe she is confused. But in her present weakened state, she is not really in the right position to make a good decision for herself, this guy is just thinking about himself, I mean, if he really cared for her, he would have given her the space and time that she needed to at least go through some proper grieving, but instead, he is able to easily manipulate her feelings since she is so mixed up. I mean, I personally would never go out with a girl who still had pictures of her and her ex boyfriend up everywhere in their old apartment, not to mention all the knick-knacks and plush toys, out of respect for her and because I cared for her and would want a proper chance for a real relationship, not some reboundorama... and I am so mad because I really genuinely loved this girl, I mean, all of her faults were bonuses to me...I would have given my life for her, and now to see this vulture preying upon her weakness to gratify himself, grrr.. makes me so mad. And she just doesn't see through his facade. anyways, she will probably end up regretting her decision at one point, one day, and when that day comes, it will probably be too late for me. I will have probably moved on and she will be sad...I just wish she had more foresight...I guess this is probably he last time I go out with a girl of lesser looks, intelligence and class because I think her strong emotional is worth the sacrifice... boy did I get (for lack of a better word) Skewed. anyways... I guess ranting about it and dreaming about it will not change the present fact that she does not love me or even care for my wel being and I should just move on in my life all the wiser because of this scarring event. unfortunately, I don't think I will ever be able to love as madly or blindly ever again for fear of this reoccuring... there will always be a nagging thought at the back of my mind reminding me that no matter how well I think things are going, and no matter how much I tried to have the other person openly express their feelings towards me at all times, there is no garantee that it will last, and I should just relinquish future plans with someone and live in the present like some animal like my ex is now doing (her exact words were she does not want to think about anything, she just wants to live day by day and not worry about anything.). well, I guess life sucks...
-Mike


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