Posted by Mimi on January 22, 2004, at 13:54:08
In reply to Re: Help me get over her after a 6-year relationship!, posted by nukeme1(Mike) on January 21, 2004, at 12:14:36
You're right. The guy is not really her friend. He's buying roses! He definitely wants in her pants.
I left a 7-year relationship with a nice stable guy (who was too dull for me) to go out with an interesting poser. We got engaged within 5 months and one year later I figured out he was not really my friend at all, and he's a total loser. My friends and family saw it before me. But the important thing is that I saw it, but I am much older than your girl. She will probably be snowed for some time. For some reason, many woman do not see through the sweet talk.
You would be wise to move on. If I were you I wouldn't jump immediately to the next girl who has a crush on you. That will mess you up further. Go out and have fun with your friends. I feel much better when I don't sit home, obsessing and moping over it.