Posted by Dr. Bob on July 8, 2010, at 3:39:07
In reply to Re: Lou's response-, posted by europerep on July 8, 2010, at 3:31:57
> you're standing there demanding everyone considering posting to read/watch/... something that you propose.
>
> you keep making the same points over and over and over ... I find it somewhat condescendant like we were little kids who STILL didn't get the lesson..Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
It's up to you to decide whom you interact with. Sometimes interacting with others may be frustrating, staying civil may be a challenge, and new skills may be required. If you're open to developing new skills (which I realize may not be why you came in the first place), that's another way in which you can be supported by other posters.
Lou, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express yourself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
"a brilliant and reticent Web mastermind" -- The New York Times
poster:Dr. Bob
thread:953690
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20100403/msgs/953704.html