Posted by llurpsienoodle on May 21, 2008, at 10:46:20
In reply to Re: it's a heart-breaking situation.... » Racer, posted by MidnightBlue on May 12, 2008, at 15:33:49
I just joined onto this thread, so I'm not sure if what I say has any usefulness at this point...
When I went to the hospital a few mos ago, I found that it was a real wake-up call to my H. For one thing-- he had to see the marriageT by himself. He got a lot of psycho-education about what it means to be depressed, to have an anxiety disorder, etc.
He found that he missed me, missed my presence. And he worried. The worrying was probably a shock to his system. He was used to being concerned, but probably not WORRIED, scared.
I can cross my fingers that you can use this opportunity to create a new direction for yourself and your relationship.
take good care,