Posted by violette on June 22, 2010, at 20:24:16
In reply to Re: wording of pubic 'rephrasing requests', posted by Dr. Bob on June 21, 2010, at 18:08:47
"I'm open to rephrasing my requests, what do you all think would be better?"
As I said, a brilliant and reticent web mastermind can figure it out...though i see you have a background in mathematics, so maybe you somehow are less inclined toward the dynamics of emotions and personal communication/dyads?
it's your rule and according to your rule, if others are put down by a comment, it would be uncivil (regardless of intent). A few of us said we felt 'put down' by your statements/methods.
Actually, Bulldog and Christ Empowered had already made amends on the Medication board right before you blocked Bulldog (sent him to his room).
Good luck with your forum administration issues.
"Believing that making you ashamed would motivate you to behave as they wished (The demands of a dysfunctional shame-bound family are irrational and inconsistent, for the family only knows it is unhappy and does not know what would make things better. The child becomes the scapegoat for the family's incompetency in solving its problems-in-living.), your parents intended you to feel shame about yourself for your "bad" behavior. Sometimes, they even rationalized that shaming you was "for your own good."
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