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Lou's request to Abbie-dhvdhep

Posted by Lou Pilder on September 6, 2008, at 16:29:27

In reply to Re: post something on that thread, posted by Dr. Bob on September 6, 2008, at 14:00:19

> > Yet again, you disappoint, and you hurt me personally. I don't handle the topic well (maybe you don't remember who I am), and dumping that on me really freaked me out.
>
> Sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. I did dump it on you when I replied to your post, and I should've just asked more generally if anyone else minded doing it. One of the nice things about a group is that if one person can't do something, usually someone else can.
>
> Would you be willing to say why this freaked you out so much?
>
> Bob

Abbie,
I am requesting to you that you take under advisement from various sources before you reply to Mr. Hsiung's request to you to say.{...why this...].
Then after you take under advisement, you could consider as to if a public posting of {why}, could be good or not for you since it could bring up again.
I base my request to you from what I see in what you have written here. One statement being,[...I don't handle the topic well...].
If that be the case here, then it could IMO bring up the topic that you do not handle well again by composing a post in relation to answering Mr. Hsiung's question to you. And in my readings of aspects of this type of situation from various psychologists/psychiatrists, there could be a counterpoint.
So my perspective here is caution and preventative in nature that I think that knowing your own self in relation to this situation here could mean IMO that a time period of some nature could be helpfull to you before you reply to the question of {why}, if you are going to reply at all to it. Mr. Hsiung does ask if you are willing to reply to {why}. I think that an exploration as to the ramifications of a reply couild be in order before you reply, if you reply at all.
You see, it is my great conviction that your writings here are not without significance, and that you are writing about in your opinion what could be serious consequences about a connection to your great distress. In my opionion, there could be closly linked aspects in the discussion here that may be unbeknownst to you or others that IMO it could be more helpfull to consullt others and reflect upon what it is in the situation that could perhaps be counterproductive to your health in relation to a reply to {why} that you could compose to post.
Another suggestion could be to email with other members before you post a reply to {why} to get their perspective as to if posting it could be good or not for you, and could you email Mr. Hsiung without posting a reply?
Other reasons to take under advisement before posting your reply to {why}
Lou

 

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