Posted by partlycloudy on May 3, 2005, at 10:21:13
In reply to Re: I have no way of knowing » gardenergirl, posted by nikkit2 on May 3, 2005, at 7:18:56
And I'm so sorry for your pain from that. (Duh - where was I? Probably hiding my head in the sand.)
Personally, I too would hope that if someone found a post of mine of questionable civility, they would approach me about it first. People have done this with me, and I do appreciate it. I can't say, however, that it hurts any less than having a post questioned here on the Admin board. It has just resulted in "please do not post to me"s on multiple sides. Which is, I guess, the closest thing we have here to an Ignore button.
Sometimes I'm pretty much primed for feeling hurt, no matter how the issue is approached.