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Re: I think I understand why people don't like this... » alexandra_k

Posted by Gabbix2 on January 31, 2005, at 19:22:28

In reply to Re: I think I understand why people don't like this..., posted by alexandra_k on January 31, 2005, at 18:55:27


> I am trying to understand the hurt feelings
> And I am trying to find ways to show people that .
>
> We can choose how to view this...

Please don't say "we" it's a complete contradiction. I don't need someone to show me how to choose. I *have* chosen how to view this, and my view is different from yours. The way that is phrased it sounds like the only way I could be choosing is if I agree to this, and that's rather ironic. My feelings are not hurt, I'm angry, and I'm disappointed.

I frequently change my mind when an argument presented seems valid to me.
I haven't seen one yet, "The words have changed but the song remains the same"

No, I don't think this is as extreme as choosing people by color. However sometimes people exaggerate to make a point.
I think having private conversation which can be viewed but not participated in by the rest of babble is insensitive, I think it promotes cliquisheness and it insinuates that there is an unruly mass to get away from.

>we really don't need to be that hurt

That's right, anyone who wants a private conversation can have one.. IN PRIVATE


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