Posted by Fallen4MyT on December 5, 2004, at 22:11:27
In reply to Lou's reply to Fallen4MyT-hm » Fallen4MyT, posted by Lou Pilder on December 5, 2004, at 8:24:17
Lou, if I understand your question correctly I personally would allow my guests to be adults and deal with the issue themselves. Now if a fist fight or something broke out I would ask they both leave for the THAT visit. If I personally KNEW one friend struck the other first and for ZERO reason I would ask my slap happy friend to go. I would not ask the rest of my guests to decide who would stay and who would go and so on. It's like my smoking rule here you are not allowed to smoke.. not only in my house but also ON my property I have a lot of land and if my friends want to be on my property they will not smoke. If they want to smoke then they could go somewhere else and smoke with their other friends. They do NOT HAVE to smoke on my property nor fight with me on my rule and they respect that. So I guess my point is as it is MY home and they are guests it would be MY call right or wrong.
I am still wondering what your role is as far as if you work or co own the site I am seriously not understanding that.
> You wrote,[...If I owned a site...it would be like my home... people can come and go if they do not like my rules...].
> Well, in your home would you say that you could allow a guest to be defamed or ridiculed or humiliated by another guest and say to the guest that was defamed or ridiculed or humiliated by the other guest that they could leave because it will be allowed for the other guest to defame you in front of all the other guests? If you could clarify that, then I could have the opportunity to reply accordingly.