Posted by Dinah on October 10, 2004, at 0:43:35
In reply to Re: I didn't read any.--dinah, posted by newwife on October 9, 2004, at 23:09:46
My posts were mainly academic rather than impassioned.
It isn't easy, but it is possible to establish a dialogue with Dr. Bob in which he could explain his meaning more clearly. If this is important to you, I think it would be worth it.
It can be difficult to learn how to apply the civilty standards and understand Dr. Bob's expectations. I realize it must have been frustrating to you to work so long and hard on a post and have Dr. Bob flag it.
I'm trying to learn not to be such a b*ttinsky and not to proffer civility interpretations, particularly unasked. It's not easy for me, as I'm a b*ttinsky by nature. :)
I'm sorry you feel hurt. And I hope that Dr. Bob can clarify at least some things to ease some of the hurt.