Posted by pat123 on March 21, 2001, at 19:47:32
In reply to Re: Are some of us invisible?, posted by JahL on March 21, 2001, at 15:18:21
> > > When I post it seems as if anyone rarely replies. Is there some phenomena that causes some of us to be shunned? It's hard for me to post at all. Right now it is because the Geodon makes me shake so badly that I can hardly hit the keys. Guess the non-popular people in real life are not accepted in cyberspace either. I have tried to be supportive, but guess I am missing the boat.
i really think this is your perception (non-popular vs popular). Also keep in mind that the "popular" have learned what behaviors help them acheive this goal and the "unpopular" can learn these skills, too. Also sometimes being part of a group is not desirable.
If you get no feedback on your posts it is your choice to take this in a negative context. You are just assuming, because you have no responses.
Another possibility is that your post said all that needed to be said and was well thought out. Maybe no one had any more to add. Assuming "no one likes me" is a sure fire way to assure that no one will.