Posted by Racer on December 19, 2006, at 19:28:36
In reply to psuedoname trigger, posted by rubenstein on December 17, 2006, at 21:32:15
> I didn't know, I have been too selfish in dealing with things in my own life, It is so sad, so much death this year, he will be so missed
> rachelYes, Pseudoname will be missed. It's tragic that life can get so painful, and that there's sometimes little help available when it's needed.
You, though? You're not "selfish" -- that's a very harsh thing to say about yourself. I know how hard it is to recognize, sometimes, how hard we can be on ourselves. (Trust me -- you do *not* want to be inside my brain these days...) I also know that, out of all the words I could use to describe you, "selfish" ain't one that jumps to mind.
I don't know what else to say right now. I'm in pretty hopeless shape myself, but I wanted you to know that you're not some terrible thing like "selfish" for not knowing about Pseudoname's tragedy. You're a good person, you know.
And if you don't know it, we do. Maybe that can help?
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