Posted by stresser on October 26, 2004, at 13:56:01
In reply to Re: Bad Day Yesterday..Didnt want live.-L, posted by woolav on October 24, 2004, at 12:42:07
I will be happy to keep you posted!! I sometimes feel that the reason my daughter is the way she is.......is becasue we have let her do too much and given in on things after saying no. She's a spoiled child and it's our doing. Now, when I say no, and I have been saying no alot, I ask myself "should I be saying no"? I totaly blame myself for her problems, because I feel that I haven't prepared her for life. I have solved too many of her problems for her, now she can't do it herself. She thinks world owes her, and doesn't understand that you have to prepare for the future. She does not want responsibility. On top of that I feel incredibly guilty, because I feel that I am the root of her problems. I am not in the position to give advice, obviously, but maybe you should listen to your husband and say no. I wish I had said "no" to my daughter now. She's a good girl, no driking or drugs, thank the Lord, but I gave her too much. Keep in touch! Nice talking to you. -L
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